What would you say is the true definition of a beautiful girl? A woman whose beauty is flawless in a natural way? or a woman whose beauty is enhanced by thick makeup?. Whichever you choose between the aforementioned, you are right. It is said that nobody is ugly and that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Even the defunct P-Square band sung in one of their songs that “Nobody is Ugly” but no matter how much we say these things to make people feel good, we know that it is not everyone that ticks all the boxes required to be a beautiful girl. When a beautiful girl smiles or laughs you can’t help but smile along too, even if it was just on the inside. They are popular without even trying. But want to know why most beautiful girls are single? Below are some reasons you should know.
1. Majority of Men assume they are taken
This is so true as it happened to me recently, I met a girl I like so much and I immediately assumed she has a guy not until she told me he was single and I was like “you” re kidding right?” Assumption is a barrier and sadly, an assumption is the lowest form of knowledge I am sorry to say. Most men assume that most beautiful girls are taken but the truth is, some of them are taken for granted. Some cry themselves to sleep in the night and pray to God to send a man their way. A little kind gesture to them means so much and they wish it would lead to a date. Not all beautiful girls are single, if you see one and you like her, make your move.
2. Beautiful girls are not desperate
Most beautiful girls are not desperate at all. Beauty gives confidence and when they stand in front of the mirror and watch how perfect their collar bones look, they prefer to relax and take it easy than run into a man who would strangle them in the name of a relationship. Though, there is a regret/setback attached to this because beauty fades. When the skin starts to grow weaker they become desperate to cling to any man. Alluringly, they would blink their eyes from time to time, allowing their eyelashes to flutter like the wings of a butterfly so men can notice them. Time changes things, change is constant.
3. They Fear the Unknown
I feel for beautiful girls a lot. It is difficult for most of them to find true love. They are always on the lookout to meet the soul that plays like them, fights like them, hold on with determination like them. Their beauty gives them the impression that they deserve everything beautiful but unfortunately life is not fair. The fear of falling into hands of the bad guys who say all the beautiful things makes them prefer being single.
4. Men are intimidated by their beauty/intelligence
Hold up, I know what is going through your mind. Yeah. It is true that not all beautiful girls are intelligent. Some are beautifully dumb. However, most of them are quite brilliant, speak very well, drive flashy cars, live in highbrow areas and radiate an intelligent beauty. Men find it difficult to approach them because of fear of rejection.
5. Their Friends and Family come first
Having a Relationship is the last thing on their list. Most of the time they prefer to flirt because commitment is a long shot for them. They value deep friendship and family ties above all else. They want to hang out with their girlfriends and crack jokes all day. A songwriter once said all a beautiful girl wants to do is just to have fun. But that doesn’t mean they don’t want to commit when they see a genuine man. So guys, go ahead and make your move.
6. You’re not fully putting YOURSELF out there.
Here’s the thing about certain hot girls — they feel like their beauty and confidence is enough to land them a guy. Men like being acknowledged as well, and would love to see you take the chance and talk to them. If you’re sitting quietly at the bar, waiting for someone around you to make a move, you’re bound to have a pretty lonely night. Why not listen in to the conversation that cute guy is having with his buddy, and playfully interject?