What would you say is the true definition of a beautiful girl? A woman whose beauty is flawless in a natural way? or a woman whose beauty is enhanced by thick makeup?. Whichever you choose between the aforementioned, you are right. It is said that nobody is ugly and that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Even the defunct P-Square band sung in one of their songs that “Nobody is Ugly” but no matter how much we say these things to make people feel good, we know that it is not everyone that ticks all the boxes required to be a beautiful girl. When a beautiful girl smiles or laughs you can’t help but smile along too, even if it was just on the inside. They are popular without even trying.
I’d like to share with us why most beautiful girls you see today are single? Below are some reasons you should know.
1. Majority of Men assume they are taken
This is so true as it happened to me recently, I met a girl I like so much, i mean i had goose-bumps at my first sight of her, and I immediately assumed she has a boyfriend/fiance not until we got along and then she told me she was single and I was like “you are kidding right?” Assumption is a barrier and sadly, an assumption is the lowest form of knowledge i am sorry to say. Most men assume that most beautiful girls are taken but the truth is, some of them are taken for granted. Some cry themselves to sleep in the night and pray to God to send a man their way. A little kind gesture to them means so much and they wish it would lead to a date. Not all beautiful girls are single, if you see one and you like her, make your move.
2. Beautiful girls are not desperate
Most beautiful girls are not desperate at all. Beauty gives confidence and when they stand in front of the mirror and watch how perfect their collar bones look, they prefer to relax and take it easy than run into a man who would strangle them in the name of a relationship. Though, there is a regret/setback attached to this because beauty fades. When the skin starts to grow weaker they become desperate to cling to any man. Alluringly, they would blink their eyes from time to time, allowing their eyelashes to flutter like the wings of a butterfly so men can notice them. Time changes things, change is constant.
3. They Fear the Unknown
I feel for beautiful girls a lot. It is difficult for most of them to find true love. They are always on the lookout to meet the soul that plays like them, fights like them, hold on with determination like them. Their beauty gives them the impression that they deserve everything beautiful but unfortunately life is not fair. The fear of falling into hands of the bad guys who say all the beautiful things makes them prefer being single.
4. Men are intimidated by their beauty/intelligence
Hold up, I know what is going through your mind. Yeah. It is true that not all beautiful girls are intelligent. Some are beautifully dumb. However, most of them are quite brilliant, speak very well, drive flashy cars, live in highbrow areas and radiate an intelligent beauty. Men find it difficult to approach them because of the fear of rejection.
5. Their Friends and Family come first
Having a Relationship is the last thing on their list. This might not apply to most of them i suppose. Most of the time they prefer to flirt because commitment is a long shot for them. They value deep friendship and family ties above anything else. They want to hang out with their girlfriends and crack jokes all day. A songwriter once said all a beautiful girl wants to do is just to have fun. But that doesn’t mean they don’t want to commit when they see a genuine man. So guys, go ahead and make your move.
6. You’re not fully putting YOURSELF out there.
Here’s the thing about certain hot girls — they feel like their beauty and confidence is enough to land them a guy. Men like being acknowledged as well, and would love to see you take the chance and talk to them. If you’re sitting quietly at the bar, waiting for someone around you to make a move, you’re bound to have a pretty lonely night. Why not listen in to the conversation that cute guy is having with his buddy, and playfully interject?
in addition to the above article, i would also advice that you:
Step Out of Your Comfort/Contentment/Consolation Zone:
Just a word of encouragement from Oluwafemi Emmanuel (CEO Realmofysblog.com)
The fact remains that as a man (Both Sexes) you have to stretch yourself beyond your present level.
Move out of your shell and move your life beyond your comfort zone. Do not be afraid to take risks. Develop yourself, develop your skills and set goals and do your best to achieve them.
Seek help where and when it’s needful and necessary. Challenges are imminent in the pursuit of your dreams, aspirations or purpose in life, face it!!! The fact remains that nothing good comes easy.
I love the popular saying that goes thus:
“Winners never quit and Quitters never win”
“If you don’t do the required, you will never get the desired”
Be positive minded that all will be well with you. God will positon you to meet helpers of your destiny and those that will in one way or the other believe in you and help push you to succeed (#smiles, well talking about that, i met someone recently and believe me, she’s God sent)
Remember God told the Man with the Greatest faith ever (Father Abraham) in this exact words “Step out of your fathers house and i will show you a land full of minerals . Gen 12:1” God was simply telling Abarham to leave his comfort zone. We know how things began to fall in pleasant places for him when he left.
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Hey listen to me, i am not saying you should leave your fathers house in a hurry o, (lol) make sure you apply wisdom in whatever actions you so desire to take. Bottom line is: Seek Gods direction.
You were created and sent to this world for a reason and for a purpose and until you achieve that, you are not permitted to DIE.
So grab the bull by the horn and step out of your comfort zone! There’s is Greatness inside of you, Manifest it.
The Word of God says in this world you will face challenges, trials, temptations and so much more, but He says be of good cheer because He gat you.
These challenges are just there to prepare you for the future He has for you and it proves that you are on the right path to Greatness
Every problem is a gift and every trial is a test. Without them , trust me Growth is far from you.
Dont give Up !!!
signed: Amowoyagi Oluwafemi Emmanuel